TEMPLATE 1st paragraph: Opening paragraph is about something you enjoyed about their profile.I usually added something specific I read in their profile and comment positively on it.
This topic came up as I got to an email from a reader. And what I found was that I was often disappointed -- I'd put all this time and effort into a monster of a message, and then... There are a bunch of lessons I eventually took away from those experiences that I'll share with you today.
The 1st Email for me was usually the first time I was writing someone and showing interest in them.
I would read someones profile quickly and review their photos and find something to write about to them.
Now that you’ve had a week or two to write up your profile and dip your toe into the world of online dating, it’s time to take a step back and take stock. Even a terse “Fuck off, cave troll” means that at least you’re being heard. It’s one of those times that makes you feel like you’re ready to scrap the whole idea and try your hand in places where you might have more success…
Or are you sending a lot of messages out into the void, never to be heard from again? Much like in real life, the only reaction that really infuriates is reaction.